Friends and Friendship

You can always tell a real friend: when you’ve made a fool of yourself, he doesn’t feel you’ve done a permanent job. (Laurence J. Peter)

A lot of people go through life with only a few friends. It seems that some have less than that. They have no one on whom they can call in good times or bad. There is no one with whom to bounce ideas around, or to talk about deep and troubling subjects. They have no one to call in times of need or difficulty. They are at the mercy of life, standing alone.

Others seem to have a multitude of friends. Wherever they go, people know them, and like to be around them. Should trouble strike, their biggest hesitation might be over which friend to call. They know exactly the person with whom to discuss the topics of inquiry and debate. Life is full of entertaining and invigorating relationships because it is full of friends.

There ought to be a course in school on friendship. Of course, some people are perfectly happy to operate with fewer friends. They might rather have a few deep and loyal friends, than many superficial ones. Others thrive best when friends are everywhere and numerous. It is not so much the number of friends that is important as is the possession of friends, period.

Friendship is a blessing...

Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends can cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends can challenge us when we allow ourselves to get beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends can motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. They are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily.

Do You Want To Be A "A-List" Party Girl?

Do You Want To Be A "A-List" Party Girl?

If you always dreamed of living the life of a "A-List" Party Girl, well now your dreams may just come true.

If you have champagne tastes and just love shaking your booty all night long, well this might be your dream job come true.

Hate getting up in the morning, hate not having sexy and fab outfits to wear to the clubs, well now is the time to have celebrity designers begging you to wear their clothes.

Deplore standing in a cold line at the ultra trendy night spots in your ultra sexy, micro mini skirt and deep plunging cleavage top, while the "A-List" party girls are whisked into the clubs, and the VIP lounges.

Love to go wild, dance up a storm on the tabletop or bar top, or just taking a swing around the pole?

It seems that the number of "A-List" Party Girls, either through rehab or through motherhood, are declining at an alarming rate.

With the supply of hot, sexy party girls declining at such an alarming rate, something just has to be done.

And, who better to address this pressing issue than that number one party girl herself - Paris Hilton.

Her best friend Nicole Richie has abandon the night life to embellish that warm glow of motherhood.

Her other friends are either in or going into rehab, oh my.

Tits for Our Troops

We have been running a weekly feature on our blog called Tits for Troops. Each week we post six to eight pictures of contributor breasts and well wishes to our troops (click here for an example). Everything seemed to be going well until recently the number of comments dropped off. We chalked it up to lurking more than anything else. Then, we got this e-mail.

Question, I am Marine in Iraq and while looking for I guess porn for troops, I saw that you had tits for troops. I was able to google your site to get an e-mail address. The site is blocked from the internet, even our personal internet we pay for in our rooms are blocked. Is there a way to sign up for anything or is everything on your website? If you have time and you reply could you also send a reply to my regular email address which is Mxxxxxxx@hotmail.com I sent the email from my work one to prove to you that I am in Iraq. I appreciate your time.


Since our blog is blocked for most of the guys and gals this feature is designed for, how should we go about fixing it? We were thinking of a news letter type of thing, but we don’t know what kind of effort that. We are open to suggestions and recommendations from anyone on how to do a news letter or way to fix the blocking problem.

Tantra Can Boost Your Sexual Performance

"Improving Sexual Performance with Tantra Yoga", Rapunzel, February 10, 2008
"There are a few exercises, which along with some small dietary modifications, that can have a profound effect on your sexual performance:

Physical Exercises:
These exercises include breathing, contractions and holding certain positions. The key to really letting go is developing a state of discipline and concentration, so that you can stay in the meditative state throughout the sexual experience.

1)The Moola Bandha (Benefits include improved prostate functioning, and enhanced sexual performance)
2) The Plank (Benefits include improved sexual stamina during intercourse)
3) The Cobra (Benefits include improved sexual stamina during intercourse)

Psycho-Spiritual Exercises:
Sexual union can be achieved even without orgasm. Many men think that the objective of sex is an orgasm, but healing and spiritual union are the real goals to be achieved. I have developed a meditation on unconditional love, which can make the sexual experience less tense and decrease the pressure to perform.

Healing Massage:
Gentle stroking is an excellent way to focus on giving. Allow your partner the pleasure of receiving and yourself the pleasure of giving. I have found it much more rewarding to be the giver, as the energy comes back to you. You may want to switch off so that you each experience both giving and receiving.

Reiki/Energy Channeling:
Reiki or energy healing practiced before intercourse can also heighten the sexual experience. Reiki is an Eastern healing art whereby one-partner channels spirit to the other. In this way the receiver can enter a deep state of relaxation similar to that experienced after meditation."